Image by WAA via Stocksy. In , archaeologist Carlo Maurilio Lerici descended into tombs in the old town of Tarquinia, a necropolis of the refined Etruscan civilization that inhabited ancient Italy from about BC until its assimilation into the Roman Republic in the late 4th century BC. Aside from bodies, he found countless badly damaged frescos depicting comical male boxers, sexualized female dancers, and most notably, in The Tomb of the Floggings , one in which an unclothed woman is bent over and holding the hips of a smiling bearded man while a young man whips her ass from behind—the first discovered example of erotic spanking. And in the past 1,plus years, the sadomasochistic act has been a fascination of everyone from artists to philosophers to sex researchers in one interpretation or another. Bringing the act into the realm of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud looked at its relation to childhood spanking, believing that the punishment early on could lead to sadomasochistic preferences in adulthood.
Michael Fassbender gives in, and spanks her with a series of such well-timed and eye-wateringly powerful blows that she collapses beneath him in tremulous orgasm. New film A Dangerous Method is notable for its analysis of the relationship between Carl Jung Fassbender , his year-old psychiatric patient Knightley and his early mentor Sigmund Freud Viggo Mortensen. The British live up to the stereotype: we top the global charts for watching spanking porn. Spanking is not only a fabulous act of transgression, of dominance and submission, of skill and style involving any number of beautifully finished accessories ; done right, it also confers a singularly mind-blowing sexual ecstasy - whether or not it is done hard enough to "hurt". Despite this, few men truly grasp the art of when and how to land the most exquisite blows. As with everything in sex, the rules are there to be played with as your skill develops.
I'm also a submissive , and I'm open about that too. It only goes to follow that I talk to a lot of people about their kinks. The most common kink I talk about? A lot of people are curious. They want to know why some women love being spanked.
In an ideal world, spanking would never happen. However, some parents feel that on rare occasions it may be necessary to smack their child's bottom. This article does not intend to either promote or discourage spanking, but rather is intended to give parents the facts, and when necessary, the correct instruction on how to spank your child in the safest way. Spanking is a much-debated topic.