The other day we were informed about a young man who didn't lose his virginity until he was in his 20s and created a website on which he writes really obvious — but also valuable — relationship and sex advice for guys who are inexperienced with women. I even learned something from his post about basic stuff no one ever told him about sex! Anyway, inspired by his work, I decided to write a primer for female virgins. Because although women usually learn the basics through friends or magazines like Cosmo , there are still aspects of sex that we're forced to learn the hard way.
What is a virgin? Does oral sex count? If a woman only has sex with other women, is she a virgin? It may be useful to remember that there can be a first time for many sexual activities, from first kiss to first genital touches to first orgasm, rather than to focus on virginity status. Which brings us to the hymen.
Sometimes it might seem like everyone in school is talking about who's a virgin, who isn't, and who might be. For both girls and guys, the pressure sometimes can be intense. But deciding whether it's right for you to have sex is one of the most important decisions you'll ever have to make. Each person must use his or her own judgment and decide if it's the right time — and the right person. This means considering some very important factors — both physical ones, like the possibility of becoming pregnant or getting a sexually transmitted disease STD — and emotional factors, too.
What better way to test the food at the freshly opened Wimpy than to send someone who had never been? The burger restaurant had been a mainstay of the town centre for half a century until it closed suddenly last October. Wimpy has lots of devotees in Huddersfield but maybe it had become too much a relic of the past to compete with modern food outlets.